Drew Bekius on HumanistCoach.com

Drew Bekius on HumanistCoach.com

Support for the Secular Community

The humanist compass directs everything we do here at HumanistCoach.com.

“Ambition is a healthy part of life if set in the service of worthy goals.” —Greg Epstein,  Good Without God Our Humanist Compass and The Point of HumanistCoach.com Some may want to know what HumanistCoach.com is all about. Others may simply be curious about humanism itself. So what is humanism? What is humanist coaching? And what, then, should we expect from this website?  Regardless of who’s asking, these are great questions, and they’re the focus of a new set of cornerstone pages here on HumanistCoach.com. As you’ll see when you scroll dow and click on the links, a lot of this simply boils down to building a better self for a better world. It’s about selecting “worthy goals,“ as humanist chaplain Greg Epstein […]

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Blurred lights portray the feeling of being numb inside.

That Post-Faith Kind of Numb. Feeling numb inside? If so, you’re not the only one. Someone reached out to me a couple days ago to ask for some help as they navigate the Numbness leg of their post-faith journey. Now, today I felt I could use a break from the post I’ve been working on about finding new community after leaving the church, so I thought I’d take an hour to share with all of you a few quick thoughts following this conversation with my new friend. We’re talking about the kind of thing where after losing your faith in God, you experience a kind of emotional apathy toward pretty much all of life. It’s where you just feel numb all […]

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Cars speeding at the intersection where the secular community meets the best of today's coaching resources.

It’s. Finally. Here. And by “it,” I mean THE SALVATION OF THE WORLD!!! [Okay, we both know that “salvation of the world” bit was a tad overdramatic. Let’s walk that back and try again.] By “it,” I mean a very practical/helpful/hopeful set of improvements to what has thus far been known as The Drew Bekius Blog. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve remained blown away by how helpful the questioning-and-doubting community has apparently found this blog over the years. The majority might not feel comfortable commenting in public or sharing on Facebook, but I see the private messages you send me. And the daily flow of unsolicited traffic stands testimony to this. But I’ll be honest, I’ve been wanting to do so […]

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Woman giving a man a dove as an act of humanistic altruism.

Why Give Wisely. “Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.” (Martin Luther King, Jr.) Why do we give? Why partner with charitable nonprofit organizations and projects?  There are many reasons to be sure. Especially as a humanist. If we really care about the Big-Picture Betterment of a Thriving Humanity, then it’s important that we stand up and put our money where our proverbial mouths are. Almost all of us can do something more today.  What follows below is a list of 19 charities. Each one is doing work of incredible value around the world. And every group on this list is completely secular. The Wisdom of Watchdog […]

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Buzzing night sky asks us what we believe about life and beyond.

You’ve heard the question. If you don’t believe in God, then what do you believe in? The implication here is, of course, that if you can’t live for something beyond yourself—namely, a god—then your life can’t be all that worth living. It’s small and insignificant and certainly less than satisfying. So you better believe in something beyond yourself. But it’s a fair question: Can you believe in something beyond yourself if you’re not even a “believer” anyway? See, the hand-in-hand assumption often bound up within such a question is found if you transform the question into a statement. If you don’t believe in God, then you don’t believe in anything. In fact, I came across this very perspective (or dare I […]

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We are yelling "Charge!" into 2018 with this statue of a civil-war soldier on a horse!

Can you believe it’s almost March already??? With the new year well under way—already 14.6% finished, to be exact, I’ve realized all over again and in exciting new ways how much I want to be of service to you. Every week I receive your messages and am humbled by the thirst that is out there, a thirst for better living, for more connected community, for stronger transitions into life’s next chapters. Every single week I receive these messages and am moved and marked by them. I regularly find myself at a loss, wishing I could do more than I’m currently able. And yet real connections are taking place and people are finding true support. Just knowing you’re not alone sometimes makes […]

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